Death With Dignity

December 30, 2008 By

DEAR DR. GOTT:
Too often now it is possible to keep an individual existing for years with feeding tubes and breathing machines, whether the patient wants them or not. That’s not my definition of living. Is it for the benefit of the patient or family? No! Life is completely on hold. Is it for the benefit of nursing homes, doctors and hospitals? Oh, Yes. Doctors just stick their heads in my room once a day or week and get paid. By somebody.

When I reach the state of not being able to respond and eat on my own for one week, I want to pull the plug. That is not living but only existing. I see it all around. Don’t allow that to happen to me. I’m 86 years old and have had a good life and lovely family. Let me go.

DEAR READER:
You present a very compelling argument. I personally agree that quality of life is much more important than quantity of life. [Read more...]

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Important documents best handled by attorney

February 11, 2008 By

DEAR DR. GOTT: My husband and I have been trying to organize our affairs. An attorney drew up our wills. Is it necessary to retain an attorney to create a living will and health care proxy? Where can we obtain the forms? I have already checked with two of my physicians and they do not have forms for advanced directives.

DEAR READER: Most attorneys have the necessary forms on file for people who need them. I suggest that you work with your lawyer who can also advise you about filling them out correctly. If you do not wish to do this, I recommend you check with your local hospital. These facilities often have the necessary forms and may offer assistance with filling them out.
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