I have had 3 complete blood counts, thyroid and B12 tests, a CT scan of my chest, stomach and pelvis, a colonoscopy, and an endoscopy. I was told I have irritable bowel syndrome (IBS) since my tests have all come back normal. A nutritionist has told me that my body mass is extremely low.

My symptoms vary and can include headaches, increased urination, fatigue, lower stomach cramps, plugged ears, tender stomach, nausea, bloating, gas, loss of appetite, abdominal pain, skipped heart beats, different bowel patterns every day, and high anxiety.

I used to be a very upbeat positive person but now I have very nervous and have many strange thoughts and behaviors. I have an extreme fear of vomiting which sometimes causes me to miss entire meals. I drink coffee every day even if I don’t eat. I have skipped lots of meals because of pain and fear, and even if I feel hungry and can hear my stomach growling, I will ignore.

I am now a very self-centered, depressed person and care only to read about what could be wrong with me.

My doctor told me I could be ill because of my anxiety and has offered medications to try but I refuse them because of the possible side effects.

Could this really be IBS or are my doctors missing something?

DEAR READER:
I believe your problems can all be traced back to one thing: your irrational fears and anxiety. By not eating, you have lost far too much weight, are likely undernourished and your caffeine intake and smoking habit are not helping.

Caffeine is essentially a diuretic which could explain your increased urination. It can also cause or worsen nervousness, anxiety and palpitations. Your bowel patterns are different every day because of your inconsistent food intake. Stomach pain, bloating, tenderness, nausea and gas can be linked back to your inadequate and infrequent eating habits. After a period of not eating anything substantial, your stomach will become unable to properly digest and absorb nutrients.

I believe your best course of action is to seek out a physician, nutritionist and therapist who can all work together to help you understand your fears, develop an appropriate eating plan and monitor you. In my opinion, if there were an underlying physical illness, it would have been found. IBS is unlikely but once you are back on a normal diet, the IBS diagnosis can be confirmed or denied.

You have essentially developed a serious eating disorder. Eating disorders are not about gaining or losing weight, they are about control, fear and other emotional and psychological factors.

You need help. Consider admitting yourself to a facility that specializes in eating disorders where you will have access to physicians, nutritionists and therapists to help you work through this difficult time.

To give you related information, I am sending you a copy of my Health Report “Eating Disorders”. Other readers who would like a copy should send a self-addressed, stamped envelope and $2 to Newsletter, PO Box 167, Wickliffe, OH 44092. Be sure to mention the title.

I lost 21 pounds on the South Beach diet. How can I lose that last 40 pounds? My doctor says I MUST eat 1200 calories a day but I feel that is too much. I currently consume 800 calories a day in an attempt to lose the extra weight.

DEAR READER:
You are not taking in enough calories and I fear that you may actually be starving yourself and may be malnourished. Your diet may be detrimental to your health. This could be why you have stopped losing weight. Without proper nutrition your body will not properly metabolize what you do eat.

You should not be so concerned about your weight. At 75, it will not make much difference to your health. Stop the restrictive diet, consult with a nutritionist and get back to enjoying life.

To give you related information, I am sending you a copy of my Health Report “Eating Disorders”. Other readers who would like copies should send a long, self-addressed, stamped envelope and $2 to Newsletter, PO Box 167, Wickliffe, OH 44092. Be sure to mention the title.