DEAR READER: Your friend appears to be drinking inappropriately. I would likely label him an alcoholic if I had more information about his drinking habits. What you have to remember is that he will not make significant changes in his lifestyle (and alcohol consumption) until he is ready to do so. Such a change in attitude is often the product of a DUI (driving under the influence) or a serious accident or ilnness. If i were you, I’d pull back, tell him about your concerns and hope that your friend will moderate his drinking or — better yet — stop altogether.

To give you related information, I am sending you a copy of my Health Report “Mental/Substance Abuse”. Other readers who would like a copy should send a self-addressed, stamped No. 10 envelope and $2 to Newsletter, PO Box 167, Wickliffe, OH 44092.